Interesting, yet most definitely a grim week at college. Safeguarding, or child protection is sadly a situation that isn't classified as an "if", but rather a "when" it happens. It may well be the 21st century and we may well believe we are progressive with technology and gadgets galore. Still, society is permeated by predatory individuals that rather than care for the young, see them as prey, people to be taken advantage of.All of us on the course joined to become better trained educators, facilitators of learning. Hopefully that's what will happen. It's been brought to our attention on numerous occasions though, that we are a set of eyes and ears, that'll hopefully, because of a familiarity with our students, pick up on trends or expressed concerns that may well be indicators of some form of abuse. Take this responsibility seriously.
The above Kendal college safeguarding guidelines made for a very interesting group exercise. Thankfully, while we may well be a first port of call, we are NOT investigators or experts in these various fields of abuse, more like signposts - very similar approach as is encouraged with learning needs ( mirror Mirror - week 8 ) and other student needs ( All together now - week 24 & This way please - week 20 ). I find it very reassuring to know that the college has a designated safeguarding person, with backup in place if necessary.
Despite this, there is much a tutor needs to keep in mind :
- From the outset never promise confidentiality - they must understand that you have an obligation to forward this information to the relevant party.
- Make a note of the time, date and attendees of any conversation, then pass it on to the designated individual.
- Listen carefully - the old adage, you have two ears and one mouth for a reason.
- Don't delay in contacting the designated person.
These pointers make good sense and help the abused by helping the tutor.
How has it helped me? During the group discussion I really appreciated the insights that my fellow students gave. I know that in my own field of teaching BSL or more relevantly using my own skills to assist a deaf student in their own studies, language can be a problem. It doesn't matter how experienced you are in a second language, the key point is that it's a second language and communicating such sensitive issues with the nuances of a language possibly being missed or misunderstood may prevent a student from coming forward as quickly as they might have done to a fellow natural purveyor of the language.
Deaf and indeed other disabled children and teenagers are at greater risk of abuse. The NSPCC have prepared an extensive training pack for schools and colleges that assist these establishments with implementing effective safeguarding measures. The following video is a brief summary of the pack.
So with the group discussion it was great having some pointers given to me that are observable.
For example :
- neglect - a picture over time - possible weight loss, drop off in appearance or low self esteem.
- Warning - What your standard of normality may be, may not be another person's opinion. So is it neglect or just a life choice?
- Sexual abuse - Not just the stereotypical family member, it could take the form of exploitation, grooming or pimping - does the individual suddenly have more money, fancy clothes and expensive gifts, perhaps even taking unusual calls from individuals. By extension this could be a form of emotional abuse - creating a dependency upon the gifts and how these make them look to their peers can make them susceptible to emotional manipulation so as to maintain the image.
So what is my big lesson? well as an advocate of the vital role of body language in my specialist subject. My own body language betrayed me, as my jaw metaphorically hit the floor. The world may still shock me, but it's up to me to remain neutral, non judgemental and not let my voice or body language push a student away, it's no doubt taken a huge amount of courage to come forward, I don't want to be the reason they pull back.